Sex Talk

Sometimes I wish I still was a virgin, my love life my sex life isn't what I wanted to really be. It sucks. I'd rather be in love with the person I have sex with now in my life than not. One night stands and friends with benefits are not very fulfilling. I don't recommend them.

(I want to be married damnit!!! My older brother is and at the rate I'm going, I'll end up the spinster, it's not fair damn it, I'm cute and adorable and very lovable but no cares, I'm going to go hug my dog now)

If I may ask, how old are you? I've seen tons of girls saying they want to get married, blah blah blah, and they seemed too young for it. Or, it seemed like they were in a hurry to get married when they had plenty of time left.

If you're not in your late twenties, then, uh . . . forget what I just said. :)

Some girls prepare their whole lives to settl down and have kids, and some don't.
Desperation doesn't breed good choices, though, so I would say...chill out.
Big difference between being alone and being lonely.

Dammit, I know I'm gonna veer off topic.
I share the sentiments about being a virgin, gf and I reckon that if I had been one when I married my ex-husband, I would still have remained married. I wished I knew what it was like to lovingly offer your virginity to your man. Alas... FUCK ALL DATE RAPISTS TO DAMNATION!!! Sorry, I go through cyclical episodes of depression, then anger sometimes. My bad. :cry:

I'm sure you are cute and adorable and I seriously hope that you will achieve marital bliss in time to come, love. Ahh, are your nurturing, maternal instincts kicking in, Sweety? ShaggyJebus has a point. Some women like me has a sudden surge in sex drive the minute they hit their late 20s. I'm horny 24-7 and I'm happy/proud/surprise at myself for doing a helluva job for being celibate and faithful when he's away. And yes, sex with a beloved is incomparable. I'm dying to remarry again. I want the sex and his baby.

Though it seemed like a lifetime ago... Marriage brought with it so many wonderful fulfiling emotions, this I can vouch for. You just have to be truthful about everything even if it may hurt you and him. Never ever make a man feel trapped, he'll just turn into a bastard and leave you. Stay cute, doll!

OH, back to topic: I love vaginal intercourse. Yummy!

I also readily believe that sex that comes with marriage is so much more fulfilling than sex with a girlfriend or one-time stands. After all, I'm a romanticist, and there's something about having intercourse with your soulmate that just defines ecstasy the to max. After all, the trust and love are there.

Very true! Guys like you, Angelus and the rest not mentioned here are a seriously a vanishing breed. Way to go!!!

It really depends on the person. Because your emotions are real to you, and you believe they make a difference in the sex, they do. Or it's coincedence. For someone like me, who has no feelings, it wouldn't really matter.

It kinda sucks that I lost my virginity to rape, especially since it was some freaky mexican guy I didnt even know...but luckilly now I am having sex with a very nice guy who I love very much

Ah geez, you have my condolences. I hope that guy of yours is making you very happy.

@Dante1214: "For someone like me, who has no feelings..." is the biggest line of bullshit I've heard in a long time. You're telling me that sex is something that's emotionless and feeling-less. You either enjoy it, or hate it, and that in itself is based on feelings. Most people have sex because they want to, and I haven't heard of a let's-have-sex-because-the-survival-of-the-human-race-depends-on-it-no-hard-feelings case since who knows when.

It's strange how many people tell me that I feel things when I tell them I don't.
I wasn't actually saying sex is an emotionless thing, because it isn't. Honestly, I think that the common idea of how little emotion is invoved in sex is wrong. Even if a lot of people don't realise it, sex carries a lot of feeling and symbolism for people. It's why as a rule, sex complicates things.
I was just saying that these sorts of complications wouldn't apply if you honestly didn't have feelings, for whatever reason.
And there aren't people having sex because they have to because there are billions of people on the earth, and most of them enjoy sex. So your right, people do it because they want to, but sometimes, that leads to children. That happens enough of the time that there is no reason to worry about the race going extinct, and so noone feels the suvival fo the human race depends on them fucking.

damn it dis regard this one my com double posted the same thing twice

soooo... you don't have feelings right?

ok lets take an example if i was to kill everyone close and dear to you you wouldn't be pissed off, sad, looking for revenge etc ? it's a load of bullshit everyone has feelings unless your a sodding robot and we all know that you sir are not an bot

excuse me if this is wrong couldn't make heads or tails of your last post

Just throwing this out there:

If a person didn't have any emotions or feelings, it'd either indicate a major neurological problem or a major emotional problem. Either something was (literally) wrong with the person's brain, or there was some huge emotional or mental trauma that had severely fucked the person up. It'd be something to get checked out, for sure.

Ok, I think I might want to explain myself better.

I'm 26 years old, I turn 27 at the end of the year, never in my life have I had a boyfriend. All my sexual experiences were one night stands and friends with benefits. The first guy who ever showed interest in me kept me in the shadows and I was just for his private use, in public I was just another friend. I'm still his friend today and he gives me mixed signals so I've given up on anything more happening and now I don't want it to. One guy I thought "Hey this is it, my first boyfriend" unfortunately no. I started to kinda date him when I had tournament for the women's ncaa. ODU's women ended up in the elite eight that year, it was exciting. So when I got back from the trips, he ends up being with the daughter of the guy he is working with and now shacking up with. Pissed me off, but I remained his friend and his girlfriend relied on me for advice....ugh and she was in high school damnit. From there on I just about gave up and ended up in friends with benefits relationships, where I am now. Though before I can ever start to look, I must address some personal demons, the fact stands that I don't want to end up alone. I've come to a point in my life where I want a family, hell I've always wanted mother and my friends have always thought I would be a good one too.

I'm tired of being jealous of my friends' happiness, I just want a chance to at least know what it is they have.

i don't know what to say to this but damn... after that kinda BS you really deserve someone special... but at least you had more experience than me

Someone without normal emotional functions wouldn't have anyone close and dear to them, would they?
As ShaggyJebus said, there has to be conditions to explain a lack of normal emotion, just like anything else abnormal, there is a reason for it. And any of these conditions wouldn't make you robotic. They affect different people differently, but most people just experiance a lack of empathy for other humans and a lack of conscience.
But, would you stop bothering me about it if I said I don't feel things normally rather than just saying I don't have emotions?

.... >_>shuddup