Does Age Matter
Is an age gap of 12 years alot?
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anything in capitals is indisputable if the rest of the fakku community doesnt know that already. you miss 3 days you miss alot on these forums... here goes.
glad you decided to post this arly =) and i hope youve gotten your answers somewhere in this thread. like ive told you before, as long as the relationship is genuine i believe age is (usually) not a factor. this guy might be a little more mature then you, but even if you met someone your own age it doesnt mean youll match like two peas in a pod. try it out, im sure you have alot to benefit from through this experience =3
glad you decided to post this arly =) and i hope youve gotten your answers somewhere in this thread. like ive told you before, as long as the relationship is genuine i believe age is (usually) not a factor. this guy might be a little more mature then you, but even if you met someone your own age it doesnt mean youll match like two peas in a pod. try it out, im sure you have alot to benefit from through this experience =3
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Waar wrote...
NOT FOR LOVE, NO ISSUE IS TOO LARGE TO OVERCOME!WAAR KNOWS CAPS LOCK IS CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL!
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Waar
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Fiery_penguin_of_doom wrote...
Waar wrote...
NOT FOR LOVE, NO ISSUE IS TOO LARGE TO OVERCOME!WAAR KNOWS CAPS LOCK IS CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL!
EVERYTHING I SAY IS COOL, CAP LOCKS IS JUST WHEN IM SRSLY SRSUS.
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Waar wrote...
Fiery_penguin_of_doom wrote...
Waar wrote...
NOT FOR LOVE, NO ISSUE IS TOO LARGE TO OVERCOME!WAAR KNOWS CAPS LOCK IS CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL!
EVERYTHING I SAY IS COOL, CAP LOCKS IS JUST WHEN IM SRSLY SRSUS.
DON'T YOU MEAN SUPER SERIAL? Because, I'm super serial.
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Waar wrote...
ragakitty wrote...
Even Still, Waar, There will remain some issues even if she was only few years in distance. Le Sighs! Eshi worries too Much, Most apologies.
NOT FOR LOVE, NO ISSUE IS TOO LARGE TO OVERCOME!
How about Death? I'd say Death is a bit of an issue, so can you point out any non-Disney evidence that Love overcame Death? :lol:
Sorry, couldn't resist, and if you actually find any I'd be most interested in reading about it.
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Waar
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crazy_old_man_on_the_hill wrote...
Waar wrote...
ragakitty wrote...
Even Still, Waar, There will remain some issues even if she was only few years in distance. Le Sighs! Eshi worries too Much, Most apologies.
NOT FOR LOVE, NO ISSUE IS TOO LARGE TO OVERCOME!
How about Death? I'd say Death is a bit of an issue, so can you point out any non-Disney evidence that Love overcame Death? :lol:
Sorry, couldn't resist, and if you actually find any I'd be most interested in reading about it.
I could probably find several religious passages where people have been together after death as well as several movies (what dreams may come) but as those are works of fiction or faith based nothing in reality can overcome death. I will say this, my mother still loves my father to this day even after he passed on 6 years ago.
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Tsujoi
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Waar wrote...
ragakitty wrote...
Even Still, Waar, There will remain some issues even if she was only few years in distance. Le Sighs! Eshi worries too Much, Most apologies.
NOT FOR LOVE, NO ISSUE IS TOO LARGE TO OVERCOME!
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Love... after time becomes the ignorance ish bliss, we pass between the blessed. Thus, become us well -We are gracious in many steps taken days on.. et Yet, we still manage in as time goes on. Still, over the yield on the age, we resist to behold the manner, in which, we place our best being blessed. Age et love shouldn't matter, especially if we get into a socially acceptable argument. Agree, shouldn't matter, buh there are still things in life to over come on the youngest's end. Et, tis most truths. Given on doubt, time tells all what ish meant to fashion between this argument. Indeed. Buh, reason to curse such a standards ish non the means of maturity, ish means of understand-ment on the basis of life. Even before that the couple must realize there will beh challenges.. et with love at hand, if such ish true love, then one can manage non matter the situation at hand. "Love Knows No Boundaries" -Agrees, buh as previously states, knows the withdrawn feelings of reality. Reality haste the motion to thrive. Le Sighs!
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In the long run, can take a toll.. Always dated younger guys, before Mine Sweet Love, et age at some means does matter whatever the gender. Non always the blessed matter of society, just the matter of various things that cost the reaction of "Oh.. Yea, you're..." Guess, depends on the person. Et, beyond, the matter if there really is love between the two partners. Le Sighs!
Like, said, in long run always believe that age doesn't matter, buh it does have a cost to tell in what we call Reality basis. Life ish life, et if you can't ignore certain factors -Then doesn't truly matter at all. Otherwise, does a toll for your mind/soul. If! you don't have the mind/soul to ignore certain aspects. Itsà was never certain to happen, in the first place. --All, Eshi ish saying.
Like, said, in long run always believe that age doesn't matter, buh it does have a cost to tell in what we call Reality basis. Life ish life, et if you can't ignore certain factors -Then doesn't truly matter at all. Otherwise, does a toll for your mind/soul. If! you don't have the mind/soul to ignore certain aspects. Itsà was never certain to happen, in the first place. --All, Eshi ish saying.
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Most Apologies, for recent posts, just little irritated from various events that happen online/offline -still doesn't excuse any matter. Mewhs! Well, anyways, the following will non beh in translation, simply because I do not have the time today... Sew, the following..
Realize over time, as Eshi grows, in this life, that had various of different assortments in opinions of this/many matters. This, Personally, Eshi has NOTHING against the place of AGE difference. Buh! when comes down to the matter, you have to rely on a margin of error -or you'll lasp within the situation to grow/evolve. Otherwise, you become stuck et/or abandoned from something that seemed glorious bliss.... Realize et beh wary of every situation, Eshi says! -Ish All.
There are many logical opinions that basis a complex form or notion, buh we can never validate the situation otherthan with similarities. Non situation ish the same, never can beh the exacts of "same". We grow et even on our complex formulas with what we know MIGHT happen, non say or sew can change the axiality.
What matters most ish that we love et can live with whatever we choose in life, non how itsà done, just if itsà fair to others. That's all that truly matters, in mine opinion. Do what you feel ish right, nothing more or non one else can change your mind, for the world you thrive in.
Okies? (<333)! Sew, please, stop the thoughts that Eshi ish against the matter et realize that Eshi ish just being wary et concerned -not judgmental by any rate at all!
Realize over time, as Eshi grows, in this life, that had various of different assortments in opinions of this/many matters. This, Personally, Eshi has NOTHING against the place of AGE difference. Buh! when comes down to the matter, you have to rely on a margin of error -or you'll lasp within the situation to grow/evolve. Otherwise, you become stuck et/or abandoned from something that seemed glorious bliss.... Realize et beh wary of every situation, Eshi says! -Ish All.
There are many logical opinions that basis a complex form or notion, buh we can never validate the situation otherthan with similarities. Non situation ish the same, never can beh the exacts of "same". We grow et even on our complex formulas with what we know MIGHT happen, non say or sew can change the axiality.
What matters most ish that we love et can live with whatever we choose in life, non how itsà done, just if itsà fair to others. That's all that truly matters, in mine opinion. Do what you feel ish right, nothing more or non one else can change your mind, for the world you thrive in.
Okies? (<333)! Sew, please, stop the thoughts that Eshi ish against the matter et realize that Eshi ish just being wary et concerned -not judgmental by any rate at all!
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Pedofile alert! Pedofile alert!
:idea: *beep* *beep* *beep* *beep* :idea:
If anybody would go that far of ages, their gold diggers XD
:idea: *beep* *beep* *beep* *beep* :idea:
If anybody would go that far of ages, their gold diggers XD
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Age doesn't matter, what matters is you two working out your differences.
He's in a different point in his life, and you are sort of beginning your adult life so It might get a bit chaotic at times but as long as you're willing to work it out - then I vote that age is nothing but a number.
[except when it comes to pedophiles of course]
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Age is not a problem, he just have had an earlier start when it comes to gaining experience. This doesn't necessarily make him more experienced in life.
I could see problems if he already have kids and such, thought. It all depends on him and you.
I could see problems if he already have kids and such, thought. It all depends on him and you.
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Agrees, number in life really doesn't give blessed respect on experience. Never really has, in mine eyes. The perspective ish, ish he what you want in your life -et ish he on the same reference as you, mine sweet?
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I would say we're on different pages, but still in the same chapter? Akkk makes no sense i know but even with the age difference, things are going ok.
He's actually just gone home from coming to mine today, it was to fix the PC which was comatosed after 6 years of loyal service :( since he did it at uni it ws a sinch for him ^_^ so we spent the day messing around my house gaming, movies and over dosing on immense amounts of home made chinese food!
We get along well, we have similar interests and we're both pretty chilled people. Obviously our priorities are different because of age but to be honest i think that its a good thing that we're different as well. And even though he's experienced,[and everything i know...ive read *sigh*] i had to teach him the basics of sexual domination ^^! That was fun! But we do learn from each other. Also, ive learnt not the hope a guy is a mind reader so if i want something/he's doing something incomfy, i'll be blunt and instruct him.. :oops:
I am worried about the future and i'm hopeful, but not deluded. Ill admit i dont get that sudden surge of panic and excitement anymore, but i do get that solid, content feeling. I do worry, but for now im going to go with the flow...
He's actually just gone home from coming to mine today, it was to fix the PC which was comatosed after 6 years of loyal service :( since he did it at uni it ws a sinch for him ^_^ so we spent the day messing around my house gaming, movies and over dosing on immense amounts of home made chinese food!
We get along well, we have similar interests and we're both pretty chilled people. Obviously our priorities are different because of age but to be honest i think that its a good thing that we're different as well. And even though he's experienced,[and everything i know...ive read *sigh*] i had to teach him the basics of sexual domination ^^! That was fun! But we do learn from each other. Also, ive learnt not the hope a guy is a mind reader so if i want something/he's doing something incomfy, i'll be blunt and instruct him.. :oops:
I am worried about the future and i'm hopeful, but not deluded. Ill admit i dont get that sudden surge of panic and excitement anymore, but i do get that solid, content feeling. I do worry, but for now im going to go with the flow...
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Fujoshi_C wrote...
ive learnt not the hope a guy is a mind reader so if i want something/he's doing something incomfy, i'll be blunt and instruct him. So many women get that part wrong. Men aren't mind readers. Most men don't notice subtly. When men talk to one another we're straightforward and if we don't want to talk about something we don't. The biggest communication errors happen because of the differences. Women don't like coming out and being blunt or straight. Men don't like looking for subtlety. I'm glad you have learned to dodge that pitfall. Best of luck.
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Well, your situation seems like you have it under control. Mine hopes et wishes are beyond you. Always et forth most, in support. Kkais? :wink:
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ragakitty wrote...
[color=#cc000]Well, your situation seems like you have it under control. Mine hopes et wishes are beyond you. Always et forth most, in support. Kkais? :wink: [/color]
HAH! HA HA HA HAaAAAA!!! ITS NOT RED!!!! HA HA HA HAHAAAAAA!!!!!
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im glad everythings going well arly! and i mean everything ;o seems your already having some fun too. fierys exactly right though, communication is key in any circumstance. dont expect him to read your body language correctly or anything... i really wish we could ascertain that kind of information but we usually dont. keep us updated! i miss you on msn =(