Why can't we get the girls?

Well seeing most of us here might be lonely people I wanted to ask this question to the rest of you. Why can't you get girls? Perhaps you might want to share this with the rest of us I want to know why you can't get girls

Well my reason is that i have still school left and then i need to do the Army.

For after that, actually i have no interest, I mean like i don't feel love for anyone, i've just been hungering for my Katana and well mostlikely waiting for 2012. I haven't thought any future since i am not that much of interested about it.

Nor i have any interest in having sex in my life in any way. Maybe i am bit too obsessed from animes or sumthing, cuz i'd live to slay a bit with my Katana, but ofc i won't be doing such a things since i have no reason to kill anyone and it's against law as well. ^^

I'm also very shy when talking with a girl IRL and mostly none of any girls even talk to me, mb once in a year i might hear a question "where is something" or "what that meant".

Muhahaaha ^^

As this is online and the chances of us meeting offline is very slim (even with the possibility of conventions, etc) I'm comfortable with sharing an answer and kicking this topic off.

I am anti-social to a somewhat high-degree; I can feel uncomfortable around others that I do not have continuous interactions with, and being straight that goes double for those of the opposite sex. I usually tend to say that I am simply very shy, and I am.

I am not afraid to admit that I do care about what others think of me, as I am constantly analyzing the perceptions of others, and it only gets easier if I know them.

I tend to go along with the psychological theory of "wants what he cant have." This means two things for me: most of the woman I have fallen for (love, crush, w/e) were either already in relations or in another social status (hierarchy of the public school system).

Another thing is that, most likely due to my shyness, I don't want to be the one to confess. Meaning I want to know that the huge first step is already done with and the feeling is mutual. Safe to say that a girl that I like had confessed to me hasn't happened.

Maybe the last reason why I have failed in acquiring an intimate relationship is because I am over analytical (maybe you've noticed) and I don't hide it well. So, I have this mask placed upon me of being a non-traditional nerd. This kinda ties in with the social status.

That's enough sharing.

I've been turned down so many times in my life, I'm simply tired of that whole game.
It's not that I'm hideous or an asshole, I'm mr. niceguy, girls don't dig that. Because of that, I sorta gave up on myself...

We seems to share some same things.

Eventhou im rly shy as well, when i am with few friends on someplace, like at town or festival, event, i tend to speak loudly some stuff or do some stupid crazy shit, thou understandting that the people around will notice me and think me as crazy, but i don't mind about it, since i can't travel back in time and stop myself from doing so.

On younger age (in school age) i actually never spoke to any girl since i was so shy and on junior high school i started to speak a bit with some girls which sometimes came to see the friends around me and so, but i never actually had any relationship with any girl, cuz of my shyness getting on my nerves and i can't get any word from my mind to speak. That's also i don't have that many friends either, some of 'em i left cuz i hate drug users (don't mean to be mean to you peeps) and smokers.

I'll just be on internetZ =P and im satisfied by hentaiH xd

[size=10]I'm still with my first girlfriend, been over 2 years now. I plan on being with her for a long time.[/h]

I use to have a girlfriend. after she ditch me, i just couldn't find the strength and will to get another one. maybe i'm just disappointed in that relationship. watever though. now is not time to involve myself in relation. now is time to enjoy the freedom 1s lost.

Well, truth be told, i just don't know wat to look for in a relationship. nowadays, people look for sex in relation.(no offense, guys) i 1s know a friend that has a 8 year relation got ditch by his GF just like that.(snap finger) ouch... that hurts.
maybe i'm afraid that will happen so i keep my distant. maybe that's reason y i fuck up.

though this has nothing to do with the title. just wanna ask you guys option. is a relationship call a relationship when two person going out just eat, go out and done nothing a lovers does like kissing and having intercourse call themselves lover.

P.s sorry if offended you guys and if i'm off topic. sorry in advance

I think it's not a question of "can't", but "don't want to".
Simle chatting with the girls was always easy for me (back in school and university). But when I'm trying to become closer with someone, I begin feeling really scared. Especially after the conversation. Maybe this fear caused by opening your heart to a person and not recieving anything back.

I'm much like Arbitor69, about having no particular interest in sex, because I'm obsessed with anime stuff and I often think about slaying people with my claymore (when I had an oppotunity to buy a sword I've chosed western-type), but, again, I have no particular reason to do it and I don't want to violate the law.

So, my major reason is the Hedgehog's dilemma by Schopenhauer (recently found lol):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedgehog_dilemma#Schopenhauer

Thanks to anime, hentai and visual novels, I gather enought internal warmth to avoid society and girls.

I wanted to come up with Schopenhauer, too... but I decided against it, because that would have sounded kinda over the edge. But ultimately, I find the Hedgehogs dilemma to be true, sadly. That's exactly why I'm not so keen on having a relationship.

I think it's a variety of things.

Most of us are too shy.
Most of us are too nice.
Most of us have had their heart broken to much.

The list goes on. As for me, personally, it's a combination of things. I have a hard time trusting people. On top of that, I can be very shy as well. And on top of that, I'm a nice guy, something girls seem to absolutely hate. So, yeah...

My Reason: I have a ShinjiXAsuka relationship with a girl. Both of us are attracted to each other (or so I believe) but too shy or exertive to make a move.

I'm not lonely. My life is wonderful. I don't know what's wrong with you.

Well, actually, there probably isn't anything desperately wrong with you, you probably just lack confidence. Don't worry, just walk around thinking about how much of a boss you are, and eventually you'll get laid.

This pretty much sums me up well.

I'm a really nice guy so obviously it was unanimously decided that I'm not dating material.

I had my heart pretty much ripped out by a girl I loved for 8 years but never dated. I thought we were very close but in the end, she didn't even really consider me a friend.

I'm not really shy any more. Though, I never was now that I think about it. It was just with her that I was really, really shy. My real problem is that it's hard for me to keep a conversation going with people. I never know what to talk about. I seem to be getting better at this though. Mostly because I bridge the gap of nothing to talk about with my usual bouncing off the walls insanity :P

Lets face it majority of the people don't know what the hell they are doing. If you ask a girl out, they going to either be like "idernos" or "sure" without having the thought of actually having feelings for you (at least that's what I've been in). In my school, you either study your ass off or not get yourself in a relationship. Those are the shy girls and some of those girls don't know what to do if you ask them the question "Would you go out with me". It would take them a year just to answer you (exaggeration). Then there are the girls that have the "whatever" personality, those don't care as long as you're good looking in a way. but...

Well let's not blame them for it is not all their fault, It can be you. If you don't look like their type, they might not think you're "attractive" in a way. Since majority of the time you are going to look at your partners face, you might as well find a good looking person. Then it comes your attitude, if you have a negative perspective of things, that's a huge turn off. Your partner would be like, "Why am i with someone who is always like this, so selfish and negative, "I am not even enjoying myself out of this whole relationship". So probably find your sense of humor don't force anything and be yourself? Go steady, don't force a move as in force them to have sex or etc with you and you'll do fine. Eventuality you'll get laid. ~possibly

You may agree or disagree, it's really not to me, but if you spent a lot of time with them and be yourself. You'll get her/him for sure.

For me looks arent the issue (wise asses shut up!),but the emotional connection you need. I'm not afrid to get close to girls and talk to them, normally I'll tell jokes and ramble stupid stuff that doesnt make sense. So why no girl? I hanvent really met anybody that I really like, of course there have been sometimes where I been came to close to a girl that she thought I was gonna ask her out lol. How do I know that, her friend asked me "Did you ask her out?". I LOL'ed and said "what!". Mabye it's my chemistry I find girls attractive, but I prefer them as friends more than a girlfriends. No I'm not gey...

I fear many men can't get with girls because subconsciously they think all the attractive girls are better then them, and they then become afraid of rejection. If men could realize that hot women are not better then they are, you'll lose your desperation and fear of talking and developing relationships with women.

Well, so far, I've seen nice women go for ugly or master of cunning or combined. I guess they're dumb but I don't want that. I got experience being chased by few women but not because I'm what I've said. I'm average and innocent I think.

I don't KNOW why I can't get girls.

Wait yes I do. I'm on a hentai website's relationship & romance forum at 3:30 in the morning on a week day. No wonder i can't get a girlfriend!

When I'm attracted to a girl (I'm not very picky, so this happened often) and know its impossible, I try to turn myself off mentally and its gotten to the point where attraction to girls only lasts for a short while before disappearing completely and so I've never been aggressive about it.

At least... that's how it feels. Nowadays, I'm barely motivated by anything, girls included.