Why can't we get the girls?

i wouldn't know.. i've never gone for girls..

In real life I have always been nice and quiet and distant to people. It took me 2 years to be able to truly become friends with people in college, where I now can joke and talk freely. I think my problem with being around new people is that i naturally assume if I be myself people won't like me because my true nature is a pessimistic jerk. So instead of showing people who I really am I try to be polite and nice so I can get people to like me and then slowly act more like myself. It's kind of like Ami from Toradora.

Anyways my plan this year is to try to not hide the fact I'm a fucking asshole and just be myself as cliché as it sounds. I tell you people how that plays out for me.

Im a girl =_= but i'll answer the question as "Why can't we get the boys?" ;]
Well im really timid and quiet in school and i get really nervous when meeting new people. I guess i don't really make an effort in getting along with boys so that's why i don't have a boyfriend.

Mwong you liar
you can get girls
stop lying hahaha
I know since you're in my facebook
and I can see your pictures

My reason would be my lack of direction. I don't want to worry about a serious relationship when I can't even take care of myself. Get a job, drive and get a car, and have some money under my belt, and then I might consider something.

No one wants to go out with a bum, who doesn't have a car and can't pay for dinner. Doesn't typically go over that well. -_-

The type of girl I like seems to be very uncommon in my country.
Add to it the fact that im both a bit shy and a bit anti-social, and you'll see why am alone right now xd

I blame these 2


but in all seriousness I can't because i don't tend to like being around people because I'm just really angry and shy which makes it hard to interact at all

Well for me I've gotten rid of the shyness thing when i took a speech class(like a public speaking class fyi) and after i was done with that i had no problems talking with anyone other than girls that i liked. I mean there was this one girl i actually coulda gotten but i honestly dont remember what she saw in me cause tbh i was a bigger asshole than i am now(reason why i say this is because i dont talk to ppl anymore :lol:).

Two symesters ago i actually tried hitting on some chick i like, and to top it off she was a cosplayer. Thing is i actually hated cosplayers and why i liked her i cant really figure out :lol:. Thing was i actually tried hitting on her but in a weird way i guess :lol:. She was the type that didnt really like celebrating valentines day but i still got her her fave chocolates and then a while later i heard her say that she didnt eat them for a while(really fucking hurt me ya know). Still friends with her though as if nothing happened but the pains still there.

Most of the other girls i liked only saw me as the older brother type for some reason, or a friend. Of course some of them saw me as a weirdo cause when im with my friends im like really strange....even though by myself i still get stared at for some reason. I'm a nice guy and all but i kinda love my porn/hentai a lot and most women dont understand that, even my chick friends dont get it. Idk its really strange tbh with this whole why girls dont like me cause the only shortest way i can think of is that it's complicated. :S

Seems like i have to be an ass whole to get any of the girls my peirs get. It involves a great amount of creeping and ass slapping, i feal scummy just thinking about it. The sadest part of it all, is the girls respond to this kind of treatment. Idk i guess im too old fashioned. I want the romance and friendship not the slap ass and go. Guess im too pissed at societies norm to conform.

Guys that think you have to act like an asshole to get girls, here's a big hint: You're probably going for the idiotic immature girls and are completely oblivious towards the one that like a nice, respectable guy.

Of course this requires guys to stop drooling over the idiotic girls before moving on and actually grabbing a decent taste in women.

I think guys over think it in general. Guys are always good at playing games, but when it comes to getting a relationship they forgot to read the booklet that came with the game.

It's really not all that difficult, be honest, be nice, show initiative, be responsible, take care of yourself, oh and funny really helps too.



Non easy girls are just as likely to be online.



I also agree with Rayne. Guys complain about not getting a girl and often ignore the girls with any quality in them. Instead they drool over the idiotic immature twats.

Don't expect a good relationship if you're going in for vain reasons.

Hell, mabe im hanging out with the wrong crowds, or am still to young... no 1 acts or treats any 1 like a human being. Whatever, im sure things will change when i graduate.

I think you're hanging around the wrong people. I know plenty of people that treat others as human beings.

I think my problem is the fact that I sometimes act too nice and committed, which usually makes me fall into the "friends category". Which kinda sucks sometimes, since they just want to stay friends.

Well guess having a lot of female friends isn't all that bad, not really searching actively for a girlfriend anyway.

I take the first move first.

And also i wan't the girl do the moving.

Wait do what movi-... Ah I see.

I have an uncanny sense to hone in on girls with boyfriends. Seriously.