Futabot wrote...
FSN wrote...
If you were referring to the extremist "all men are evil", yeah... that's pretty wrong and messed up.
If you were referring to the general principle "Men and Women should be treated equally"... I don't see a problem with that.
I find that #2 begets #1. If someone takes a reasonable position and find that it is frequently violated, the go-to conclusion is the people who are responsible are evil in some shape or form.
Sure. "The people responsible". But broadly using the absolute "all" to claim "all men are evil" is well... extreme. There are plenty of male supporters of women's rights. Hell, there's men who consider themselves feminists...
The problem with such a position is that it alienates those who could become potential supporters and give the entire movement a bad name. (Because again, people like to overly generalize)
This actually segues quite nicely into the observation that, because of the ones who hold more polemical views end up being the most vocal and most noticed, it arouses an opposite and equal reaction.
Coconutt wrote...
FSN wrote...
So what in particular are you taking offence to?
Maybe to the fact that most of the out spoken feminist who publicly speak and write don't follow the actual meaning of the word feminist, that of "men and women should be treated equally" even though they preach it all the time.
They ignore the areas and issues where men face disadvantages in comparison to women. They misuse the word sexism and misogyny so that it is applied to almost everybody who simply disagree with them or don't 100% agree with them. They claim that the culture we live in currently (culture of USA) supports rape culture.
So on and so fort.
And I feel generalizations links heavily with the reason why rabid feminists and rabid anti-feminists start hating each other.
By broadly painting an entire group as one solid organism (they're not), you ignore the fine differences.
For example, while the US culture doesn't really support rape (we have laws against it for crying out loud), it's also undeniable that in certain settings, the statistics are deeply disturbing. So while it's inappropriately to broadly claim "we", Americans, "support rape culture", it's also undeniable that with "Approximately one in four college women reporting surviving rape or attempted rape at some point in their lifetime." from a multi-campus surveys sampling thousands of college students nationwide (Fisher, Cullen & Turner, 2000; Tjaden & Thoennes, 2006), this is actually a problem. Feel free to read their methodology if you have questions, but even with biased sampling, the numbers are still more than a bit disturbing.